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- She was raised in St. Landry parish and was the youngest of several brothers and sisters. Some came to Texas and the others remained in Louisiana. Melina had two brothers (William and Samuel) and two sisters (Charlotte and Jane). William and Jane and their families migrated to Texas. Melina also had an aunt named Rebecca Coleman and several cousins who had settled in Liberty Co. during the 1820's.
The book "Southwest Louisiana Records", Vol II, p. 965 shows the record of Elisha and Melina's marriage as recorded in the Opelousas Courthouse Records of 1821-1826. It says Elisha's parents are Grief Whittington and Susannah Cox, that Elisha was born in S.C., that "Maline's" parents are William ?. Dalton and Delilah Holstein and that Malina was born in Opelousas.
Melina allegedly left Elisha in Louisiana in 1831 and went to Mexico (Texas). One family tradition states she arrived in Coahuila/Texas in the company of a doctor. She may also have come to Texas in the company of brother William K. Dalton who settled in Liberty County. She had both Dalton and Holstein kinfolk residing in Liberty county who could have helped her. In Melina's land records of Liberty County, she stated that she came to Texas in 1832 as a "single head of household" -- no further personal information being given. Melina applied for her land grant under the surname Whittington. Melina's brother, William K. Dalton, also came to Liberty County about the same time. It is unlikely that Melina came to Texas by herself -- possibly she came with her brother. In her land records she could not write her name but signed her mark with an "X".
In 1835 she had a league of land surveyed in Liberty county under the name of Melina Whittington. The land is situated along the Tevis Ferry Road also known as the Atascosito or Opelousas Road. This land is later patented by Melina in 1851. This land grant is near Devers (originally Deverswood and then Deverstown) in what is now Liberty County, Texas from the Republic of Texas. Portions of it are still owned by her Whittington descendants.
Melina Whittington's request for a land grant appears in the "Records of the Board of Land Commissioners, Liberty County, Texas 1838-41......Transcribed from the records of the General Land Office, Austin, for The Chambers County Historical Commission, Anahuac, Texas, 1980: " Page 52, No. 101:
"Petition laid in by Mrs. M. Whittington, claiming one league & labor of land. Alexr Buxton & H.B. Johnston testified that applicant emigrated to Texas in the year 1832, is the head of a family, was here at the date of the declaration of Independence & has continued so to the present time."
Melina is listed on the 1840 Jefferson County tax list indicating that she owned property there. (Note: this is not the land in Liberty County as Jefferson and Liberty counties were separate jurisdictions.) There is no evidence that Melina ever lived on her league of land near Devers.
The details of her life in Texas between her arrival in 1831 and her marriage to Cyrus Thompson in 1840 are sketchy or non-existent -- possibly by design -- though she bore children during that time and gave them the Whittington surname (her husband, Cyrus Thompson, did not arrive in Texas until ca 1835). Early Texas was an unruly frontier not for the weak or faint of heart, so it should come as no surprise that some of her neighbors and relations would not be considered good neighbors by today's standards. Her daughter, Clarinda, married Joseph White, the son of a wealthy stockman, James Taylor White, but Joseph killed a man in a dispute over a hog in 1854 and was sentenced to hang. He spent the next few years running from the law and was apparently executed by vigilantes. Clarinda next married John Crozier, the son of a wealthy merchant. John Crozier was Chief Justice of Hardin county in 1860. Two of Melina's female first cousins married into the Dever and Hardin families. The Hardins had fled a killing in Tennessee, and the Dever family married into the outlaw Yocum family. Her son, Bill Whittington, named a town for his friend, Tom Devers, whose mother, Mary "Polly" Yocum, was the daughter of the infamous outlaw Jesse Yocum. Her father and brothers had earlier run with the Murrell gang of Missouri and now constituted the Yocum gang that terrorized the Big Thicket area where she lived. One of Polly's brothers, Thomas Denman Yocum and his son, Christopher Yocum, were killed by East Texas vigilantes. Polly Yocum Dever died when Tom was young, and his dad next married Catherine Coleman, a first cousin to Melina and whose sister married Benjamin W. Hardin. Tom Dever's sister, Mariah "Mary" Dever married Augustine Blackburn Hardin, a brother to Ben Hardin. Though coming from a bellicose background, the Hardin family became a prominent family in East Texas. Benjamin Watson Hardin obtained a land grant just North of Melina's and married her first cousin Adelia Coleman. Ben Hardin also served as sheriff of Liberty county from 1839 to 1845 and was the Liberty County representative to the Ninth Congress (1844-45) of the Republic of Texas. What the actual day-to-day contact Melina and her family had with these families is not known, but they were neighbors and relatives by marriage.
Melina lived most of her life in Texas in Chambers County with her second husband, Cyrus Thompson. Cyrus Thompson and Melina had no offspring, though he did help her raise Clara and William.
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1860 census, Chambers county, Texas, Wallisville PO, series M653, roll 1291, p. 7
lines 18-20; dwelling/family 458/452
C.W. THOMPSON, 58, M, $3,000, $7,000, N.York
Melina THOMPSON, 54, F, Louisiana
George J. WHITE, 5, M, Texas
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1870 census, Chambers county, Texas, Wallisville PO, series M593, roll 1578, p. 160
lines 7-10; dwelling/family 151/168
THOMPSON, Cyrus, 68, M, W, farmer, $1000, $2000, New York
THOMPSON, Malina, 63, F, W, keepinghouse, Louisiana
WHITE, George, 18, M, W, Texas
BRYANT, Mollie, 18, F, W, Louisiana
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Whittington family tradition has it that Melina died in Galveston and her grave washed out to sea. At the Rosenberg Library in Galveston, there is a cemetery interment record for an "M. Thompson", female, who died on October 25, 1874. This individual's cause of death was listed as "inflammation of the bowels". She was listed as a native of Louisiana and 68 years old -- details which match Melina. According to the records, she was buried in Potter's Field -- which no longer exists; it being destroyed during the great hurricane of 1900.
During 1859, the T & NO railroad is completed from Liberty to Beaumont, running through the Melina Whittington survey. Settlers had begun to move into the area. A depot is built and the community becomes known as Carter's Station for the Carter family living nearby.
Carolyn Whittington wrote 10-18-2000: "Here is my theory of what might have happened (of course this is all conjecture and until evidence comes to light I cannot prove any of this.):
"Melina probably found life with Elisha unbearable and he may well have been abusive to her. Perhaps she felt that her only escape from her situation was to leave. Because married women had little if any legal rights in those days, she may have been forced to leave her children behind with Elisha. I doubt that she did so willingly.
"I also doubt that she came to Texas by herself. Melina had Dalton relatives who already lived in Liberty County and one of her brothers migrated to Texas from St Landry Parish the same year that Elisha claimed that Melina left him (per the divorce papers). I suspect Melina left Louisiana with her brother's family so she must have found refuge with her Dalton kin.
"The divorce papers claimed adultery against Melina as apparently Elisha knew of the existence of her children in Texas by "persons unknown". I'm not sure why it took Elisha 5 years to divorce Melina unless there was a required waiting period or else he was thinking she might someday return. In the interim, Elisha must have found solace in the arms of Mary Milam (based on what other Whittington researchers are turning up about that possible liaison) before his marriage to Lucinda Futch.
"Melina's relationship(s) in Texas between the years 1831 and 1840 remain a mystery. She did eventually marry a San Jacinto war veteran named Cyrus Thompson in 1840 as her second husband. Cyrus was not the father of her two children as the timing of his arrival in Texas was too late. Whoever the father was may have died or abandoned Melina prior to 1840. His name has not been preserved in the family. Melina obtained a land grant in Liberty County from the Mexican government under the name Melina Whittington as a "head of a family". Melina may have claimed that she was a widow to obtain this property. The gentlemen who testified on her behalf for her land certificate did not divulge her secret if in fact they actually knew about the circumstances of her removal to Texas. Parts of Melina's original land grant still remain in the ownership of several of her son Bill's descendents. (It may be that the middle names "Harbert" and "Hobard" were derivations of her step-grandfather's name -- Adonijah Harbour, since Melina couldn't spell.)
"Melina and Cyrus remained together and lived on a farm in Liberty (later to become part of Chambers) County. They raised Melina's two children but had none of their own. Melina died in Galveston in October 1874 and was buried in Potter's Field. Cyrus died two years later, also in Galveston, at the home of his step-daughter Clara, but unlike Melina's ending, he received a proper burial in the City Cemetery. Their graves washed out to sea during the great storm of 1900.
"There is circumstantial evidence that Melina may in fact have kept in touch with her children by Elisha. One example: In the month and year of her death, there was an Ida Whittington who had been receiving letters at the Galveston post office. When letters weren't picked up the addressee's names were advertised in the local paper. I came across this evidence that Ida Whittington had been in Galveston while scrolling through old Galveston newspapers on microfilm. Ida's name appears on the list of unclaimed letters. I did not know who Ida Whittington was until I connected with Tom Cloud and his web page. Ida was the daughter of Elisha and Melina. Ida must have been in town to be with her mother in her final days."
1859 was lot 8 to 10, no. of block 316.
A "Mrs. M. Dalton" paid taxes on a lot in Galveston in 1859 and 1860
https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:939F-W8ZM-Y?mode=g&i=15&cc=1827575
1860 lists "Mrs. M. Dalton by J.L. Darragh, SW ?/4 out lot (2 or 3 ?), block 309, 1859, value 300.
https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:939F-W8CP-S?mode=g&i=52&cc=1827575
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